Stepsis Insist I Give Her My Wedding Dress Mom Made For Me When She Was Dying, Upset I said No~ AITA

I (26f) got married in 2016. My wedding dress was a dress my mom made for me when I was 11. She knew she was sick and she was a dressmaker and so I asked her to make me a dress for prom and my wedding for the future. They were basically the same dress just one was pink and the other was white lol, but they mean the world to me. Both needed to be altered when I reached the point of wearing them but luckily my grandma is also a dressmaker and she did it for me.

My stepsister (24f) is now getting married and wants to wear my wedding dress to hers. She’s my stepsister through my dad’s marriage to his wife Liz. They got married when I was 7. She didn’t know my mom though and they were nothing to each other. So for the sentimental part, and the part where she didn’t even know my mom and couldn’t share in that side of the sentimentality, I said no. I didn’t want to give away my dress. Maybe if I have a daughter, or a daughter in law I’m close to someday, I might offer it there or give it to them if they want it. But for now I want to keep both and not share.

Story 1:
AITA for not letting my stepsister wear my wedding dress?
Story 2:
AITA for being surly, rude and mean at a wedding and leaving early?
Story 3:
AITA for taking back a gift from a fake baby?
Story 4:
WIBTA if I don’t follow the same trend for my wedding as some of my stepsiblings?

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Comments

  1. GC Reddit Stories says:

    Story 1:
    AITA for not letting my stepsister wear my wedding dress?
    Story 2: 4:38
    AITA for being surly, rude and mean at a wedding and leaving early?
    Story 3: 9:32
    AITA for taking back a gift from a fake baby?
    Story 4: 13:18
    WIBTA if I don’t follow the same trend for my wedding as some of my stepsiblings?

  2. Brownie Win says:

    1) No was a reasonable answer. It is yours, was given to you, and you have no reason whatsoever to give out something with so much meaning to you. Shame on your dad and step sister. Do not let anyone guilt you. NTA.
    2) WTH? NTA. I think this was disgusting that they did this to you for some stupid unwanted set-up. I can understand why you got surly and left early.
    3) OMG, fake baby shower for non-pregnant girl. This was so entitled and disgusting to thing to do to others. I would beat her to HR to report this crazy behaviour and harassment.
    4) It’s your wedding and your feelings are your feelings, others have no business trying to push you as to what you should say. That is wrong and rude.

  3. Argestine Warren says:

    You should hide the dress from her

  4. Argestine Warren says:

    You do you

  5. Axe Pagode says:

    What is it about women and borrowing clothes or wanting to wear some other women’s wedding and prom dress? Then you get all butt hurt when declined. What is that?

  6. heather mcdougall says:

    Wedding dress story:so you’re allegedly selfish, mean and a bitch. OP needs to say “yeah, get used to it. MY dress not yours, Made for ME , by my dead MOTHER!! What part of NO don’t you understand? Then hide the dress somewhere she cannot get to it.

  7. smontalvo210 says:

    Story 1: No you are not

  8. Velma Henson says:

    Nta it has sentimental value and anything could happen to it

  9. atl geek says:

    i remember a story were a woman borrowed a nice dress to attend a wedding the bride did not show up so she married and now demands the dress for sentimental reasons

  10. FredRated1967 says:

    In the first story, OP should tell her dad to piss off and mind his own damn business. It’s your dress and your property. Protect it, lock it away, especially if your step-sis and stepmonster come over to visit.

    Oh and maybe change the locks on your domicile if your dad has a key.

  11. Augustine Abram says:

    Your stepsister does not get what your mom left for you. She should buy her own dress.

  12. brick sloth says:

    Step sister can go pound sand as far as taking OP’s dress, so can dad

  13. Augustine Abram says:

    Tell the couple exactly why you left the reception. Who needs enemies when you have friends like that. Cut the friends. NTA.

  14. FireIron 36 says:

    Baby shower story:
    Cheeky bitch, well played πŸ‘

  15. G.G says:

    Oh, yes, because when someone says no, calling them names will make them change their mind

  16. Anonymous Person says:

    The stepsister can just go buy a dress. Why is that a problem?

  17. Anonymous Person says:

    How did Dead get her phone number?!

  18. Dre says:

    Story one: she’s not even a step sister she got from the mom remarrying, she’s the dad’s step daughter. Why does she feel entitled to ask for a dress that 1) wasn’t made for her and 2) made by someone she never knew?

  19. Lisa Kazmier says:

    Clearly, that scheming couple wanted OP to think of her bf in the future as “some random dude” because she got paired with Dean. They lied about the +1 policy and it was a set up. Presuming the bf is a decent guy, Dean and this couple are complete AHs.

  20. Birdy Banks says:

    The gift scam, wow.

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